Dating as a 35-year-old single mom comes with its own set of joys and challenges — and one thing I’ve learned is that what I wear plays a big role in how confident and comfortable I feel on a date.

When I step out for a date, my goal is to strike the perfect balance between looking put-together and staying true to who I am. I want to impress, sure, but I also want to feel comfortable enough to be myself.

One of my go-to styles is a classic wrap dress. It’s flattering and elegant, showing off my shape without feeling overdone. I love how it moves with me and gives just the right amount of sophistication. Sometimes I go for a midi dress with soft, flowing fabric — it feels feminine and relaxed, perfect for everything from casual coffee dates to dinners out.

Color-wise, I tend to stick with shades that complement my skin tone and mood — sometimes a bold red or emerald green to turn heads, other times soft neutrals or subtle prints for a more approachable vibe.

Accessories are simple but thoughtful — a delicate necklace, a pair of earrings, and shoes that I can comfortably walk in. After all, feeling confident is the best accessory.

Being a single mom means my time is precious, so I don’t waste it worrying about my outfit. Instead, I choose pieces that make me feel amazing, so I can focus on enjoying the moment and making a genuine connection.

Dating is about showing the best version of myself, and for me, that starts with dressing in a way that feels authentic, polished, and effortlessly stylish.